December 29, 2020

ASK AN ESCORT episode 2. How to deal with disgusting clients?

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Hi guys, I am Monica Green, The Escort. And this is second episode of Q&A about the escort industry. And I remind you: if you want to ask an escort about whatever, you can do it by using the link below in the description. This link will bring you to my personal blog on my website, and there in comments you can absolutely unanimously leave your question about whatever connected with the industry.

I will try to make videos like that every second Friday. I will pick some of your questions and give you my answers. Let’s start. 1. Question from Martin: ‘Hi! Where can girl see blacklisted numbers and bad clients?

Any websites that blacklist is shared?’ – Well, a lot of advertising websites – they have special places for girls with blacklists. Blacklist, Whitelists – it depends on each site, on each website. On realescort (because I’m always talking about Norway, because I used to work in Norway last years), so, on a realescort there is no blacklist. So we are using WhatsApp groups, Telegram groups and just exchanging numbers with each other.

So this is very community: you cannot check this blacklist. But if you want to Google your number, your name, whatever – you can register yourself as a girl on advertising website and use blacklist. But I don’t trust blacklists anyway. I told you already before: some girls just put good guys there, because they don’t want to share them with others, they want to keep them for themselves only.

Another girls – they can take person… they can understood person wrong.https://uk.answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20090727175403AARezWz Somebody can take this guy as a bad person, like ‘he was very rude to me, he wasn’t nice, he didn’t touch me nice…’ or something, for another girl this guy can be absolutely ok. She can see him as a very nice guy and enjoying, maybe, rough sex with him or whatever.

So blacklists are very… not very trustful, I would say that. And I’m quite sure that real assholes, real losers – they don’t keep their SIM cards. I’m talking about robbers and rapists. it would be the most stupid action in the world to rob someone and to keep this SIM card.

So I don’t see blacklists as (global blacklists) as something useful… But I trust very much my Norway community of girls. But you cannot see this blacklist because this is a whatsapp group and only girls are invited. Those girls who know each other personally. 2. Is quite long, but shortly: the guy was out and he saw quite a disgusting for him man, big, who were smoking and drinking, and he the person is asking ‘do you just slam the door when a hundred forty kilo stands outside?

And when you realized this man isn’t stable, just play alone and make him happy? Or ask him to live? Or is it just another day in escort life?’ – Well, if someone doesn’t fit your standards of appearance or behavior, it doesn’t mean this person is a bad person. When I see a 140 kilo man standing outside my door – well, I don’t judge him by appearance.

Maybe he’s the nicest guy in the world, maybe he’s the most interesting person in the world, and the reason why he behaves himself a bit ugly can be different… Maybe he had a bad day, maybe he want to destroy everything around because somebody hurt him… We don’t know that, so, please, try not to judge people by a first short impression. Of course there are bad people, there are assholes. And when this happens, I told it many times before and I will repeat it again, again and again: safety is the most important thing for an escort girl.

So when I feel that troubles are possible, I choose to get rid of this person as soon as possible. But saying about troubles I mean… like, for me – bad person is somebody who wants to hurt you, who wants to make you some harm, who wants to rob you – this is what I mean when I’m saying about ‘bad persons’. And what you are describing as well can include just arrogant person – like Narcisse or guys who just in love with themselves.

Hi guys, I am Monica Green, The Escort. And this is second episode of Q&A about the escort industry. And I remind you: if you want to ask an escort about whatever, you can do it by using the link below in the description. This link will bring you to my personal blog on my website, and there in comments you can absolutely unanimously leave your question about whatever connected with the industry.

I will try to make videos like that every second Friday. I will pick some of your questions and give you my answers. Let’s start. 1. Question from Martin: ‘Hi! Where can girl see blacklisted numbers and bad clients?

Any websites that blacklist is shared?’ – Well, a lot of advertising websites – they have special places for girls with blacklists. Blacklist, Whitelists – it depends on each site, on each website. On realescort (because I’m always talking about Norway, because I used to work in Norway last years), so, on a realescort there is no blacklist. So we are using WhatsApp groups, Telegram groups and just exchanging numbers with each other.

So this is very community: you cannot check this blacklist. But if you want to Google your number, your name, whatever – you can register yourself as a girl on advertising website and use blacklist. But I don’t trust blacklists anyway. I told you already before: some girls just put good guys there, because they don’t want to share them with others, they want to keep them for themselves only.

Another girls – they can take person… they can understood person wrong. Somebody can take this guy as a bad person, like ‘he was very rude to me, he wasn’t nice, he didn’t touch me nice…’ or something, for another girl this guy can be absolutely ok. She can see him as a very nice guy and enjoying, maybe, rough sex with him or whatever.

So blacklists are very… not very trustful, I would say that. And I’m quite sure that real assholes, real losers – they don’t keep their SIM cards. I’m talking about robbers and rapists. it would be the most stupid action in the world to rob someone and to keep this SIM card.

So I don’t see blacklists as (global blacklists) as something useful… But I trust very much my Norway community of girls. But you cannot see this blacklist because this is a whatsapp group and only girls are invited. Those girls who know each other personally. 2. Is quite long, but shortly: the guy was out and he saw quite a disgusting for him man, big, who were smoking and drinking, and he the person is asking ‘do you just slam the door when a hundred forty kilo stands outside?

And when you realized this man isn’t stable, just play alone and make him happy? Or ask him to live? Or is it just another day in escort life?’ – Well, if someone doesn’t fit your standards of appearance or behavior, it doesn’t mean this person is a bad person. When I see a 140 kilo man standing outside my door – well, I don’t judge him by appearance.

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Maybe he’s the nicest guy in the world, maybe he’s the most interesting person in the world, and the reason why he behaves himself a bit ugly can be different… Maybe he had a bad day, maybe he want to destroy everything around because somebody hurt him… We don’t know that, so, please, try not to judge people by a first short impression. Of course there are bad people, there are assholes. And when this happens, I told it many times before and I will repeat it again, again and again: safety is the most important thing for an escort girl.

So when I feel that troubles are possible, I choose to get rid of this person as soon as possible. But saying about troubles I mean… like, for me – bad person is somebody who wants to hurt you, who wants to make you some harm, who wants to rob you – this is what I mean when I’m saying about ‘bad persons’. And what you are describing as well can include just arrogant person – like Narcisse or guys who just in love with themselves.

They can be assholes as well. But this is just the behavior. As for me personally, I take it as a challenge. A challenge, that… where I can test my professionalism. Because every person in the world has good sides and bad sides.

And you can find out good sides in every ‘bad’ person. I like to do that and I like to look for a reason why this person behaved him this way. But this is just for me, this is my personal opinion. For ladies, of course, I recommend – if it is possible, get rid of this person. If you feel that you will not manage as a professional to take and to make this person happy in some ways and to give him good service, if you’re not sure about that – it’s better to say: ‘Sorry, we don’t match, bye!’ 3. Marian: ‘Monica, how do you handle rude or stupid clients?

He was nice on phone, but when he come I want to kill him sometimes. But I do not want him to make me bad feedback. What to do?’ – Well, looks like these two questions are connected…

So, as I told you: if the person is just arrogant or narcissic, I take it as a challenge. For me it’s very interesting to find keys to different type of persons and to try to make their day better, to make them feel happiness just for a short moment. For me it’s a challenge, I like it. But I understand that girls are different, and for someone it can be very annoying.

So, if you feel you cannot handle it – of course, it’s better to stay away from such people. If he is already at your place – you can always find a reason to say why you can’t continue your appointment. If you cannot tell the truth – I vote for the truth, always, but sometimes, I understand, it’s not possible or you are very afraid of bad feedback, – then just invent some reason. Say: ‘Oh, I am so sorry! My ladies days started recently.

This is such a big surprise for me! Take your money back, I’m so sorry! See you next time.’ Or, I don’t know: ‘I ate something this morning and I’m starting to feel nauseous. I’m so sorry, you need to leave…’ You can give him money back- hundred percent or partly – I don’t know what was your experience before…

So it’s only up to you, but if you’re afraid of bad feedback – remember: there is no review in the world that would worth your safety. Your safety is the most important thing. If you feel something – doesn’t matter you afraid of bad feedback or whatever – GO!

If you don’t like the person – GO! Don’t stay with him. But if this is just arrogance – you can deal with it. Train your communication skills, this can help in escort work.

And especially in girlfriend experience! 4. Okay, okay, okay, okay… What else do we have today?..

Aha! Do you have any advice for someone who hasn’t been to an escort before and how this screening process might work if you don’t have references? – Well, watch my video ‘How to make an appointment with an escort girl’ – this can help. Because for Europe normally this is enough – just to be nice, polite and honest and to send a nice message to a girl.

For United States, of course, you need some proofs: girls can ask you to send your LinkedIn profile or maybe even picture of your documents. Sometimes ladies can ask for deposit. Then do it with some prepaid methods: buy PayGoo cards in Norway, for example. Pay Safe.

You can send the information about the card to the girl and she will get your prepayment. This is quite safe. But of course, do it only with those girls whom you think you can trust. Who has feedbacks already, who are quite a long time in business… Not some new profile with no reviews, because you’re risking just to waste your money.

So guys, I suppose this was mainly it for today. Most of your questions (actually, all of them) were about safety this or that way… So re-watch my videos (or watch it for the first time) about escort safety, about self defense, about possible troubles, I will leave you the links in the description under this video. And I’m going to make videos about safety in the future, because this is the most important thing in our industry – in escort industry.

Both for clients and for ladies. Ladies, if you feel something is wrong, even small thing – listen to your intuition. It’s better to lose money, to get a bad feedback, but to stay safe.

And guys, if you are meeting a girl for the first time, if the profile is new, if she doesn’t have any reviews and feedbacks – try maximum to stay anonymous. Maximally. So it’s better to prepay her with prepaid card, to make deposit, than to give here your real name and your real phone number. If you don’t trust the escort yet.

That’s it, mainly. See you on Monday! Subscribe to my channel, I’m going to make a lot of interesting videos for you. The escort industry is very intriguing topic, and I want to show you that this is much better than people think about it. I will try to fight with these prejudices and biases that society have about the escort industry.

Thank you for watching me. See you on Monday. Stay safe!

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