December 22, 2020

Husband apologizes for crimes he committed without knowing [Hello Counselor / 2017.09.18]

I think I would die of embarrassment if I were her. Hello. I’m a working mom from Kimhae. It’s chaos every day in our neighborhood.

That fatso is so noisy. Forget it. There’s no point in dealing with him. I don’t want to mess with him.

That fatso is 184cm tall and weighs 130 kg. He’s my husband. While he’s walking down the street… (Ha!) While he’s driving…

Honk honk honk honk honk! Get out of the way! I’m coming!

Honk! He acts so shamelessly. He thinks he’s the only one in the world. Grandpa!

Grandpa! Get out of the way! Who parked here?

Come out now! I’ll kill you! He throws a tantrum when he’s unhappy. Honey, please be quiet. It’s fine.

No one will mess with me when they see my face. I am so embarrassed. What should I do about my husband? Please talk to him for me.

This has never happened to you, right, Sleepy? People like him yell at me. “Come out! Come out!” You look weak. That’s why.

Whenever they see me… Let’s bring her out now. Please come on out. (Kim Minjeong) (Hello, yo yo!) He acts shamelessly because he’s big? He’s 10 years older than I am.

He’s 10 years older? He’s tall and big. I married him because I thought he’d protect me. But he acts insensitive. Like how?

People all stare at him when he goes out. He looks like a gangster. Someone who can fight well?

When he sneezes, he’s so loud that it scares people. How does he sneeze? (Achoo!) He’s very loud. It’s surprising, but he doesn’t care at all. When he walks down the street, he shouts at and claps at people.https://www.pinknews.co.uk/2018/03/05/best-gay-dating-apps-jackd-grindr-hornet-scruff/

To strangers on the street? – Why? / – I guess he was in a good mood. – That must be scary. / – He scares people. When we go to a restaurant, he grabs the remote control as if it’s his. He switches the channel to watch baseball. Even when people are watching something else? Yes.

If his team loses, he cusses out loud. Everyone else can hear him? People whisper, “What’s wrong with him?

I hate that.” But he doesn’t care at all. I think he likes the attention. You think he does it to get attention? He likes to stand out.

He honks when he’s driving. Like the World Cup in 2002. For no reason? Yes.

He’s like a captain. When there’s an oncoming car in front of him, he just sits there and waits for the other car to move as if he has all the time in the world. I get worried that he might get into a fight. He’s quite inconsiderate of others.

He must get in many fights then. That’s actually never happened. People back down when they see him. You mean people avoid confronting him?

They just back down and leave. My husband knows that no one can confront him. – You wrote that in your story. / – Yes… – That’s so immature. / – He’s a big baby. I can see a big man sitting in front of us. – But he looks cute. / – He does.

Let’s meet him. Hello. Hello.

He looks like a cutie. Can you please stand up? He is tall and big.

I lost 15 kgs. I weigh 115 kgs now. – Please talk only when we ask you to. / – Okay. He’s cute when he smiles, but he does look intimidating when he doesn’t. Does he usually have that look?

Yes. I think he’s in a good mood today. He’s in a good mood because he’s here? I think so. Are you happy to be here? – Yes.

Very much. / – Why? Because he likes the attention. He couldn’t get any more attention than this! He’s on television. Is that why?

No, that’s not why. I’d like to take this chance to change myself. So you do understand that this is a concern. Yes, I do.

Then why do you act that way? Just change. You’ll find out once you hear me out, but I had my reasons. There were reasons why you acted that way? She’s saying that you are being inconsiderate.

What do you think about that? I’m not being inconsiderate. I am 40 years old, but I am just being immature like a high school student. That is being inconsiderate. (Patience) Did you just feel rage towards me?

No. Did you really start clapping out of the blue? She exaggerated. I was watching a game on my phone and my team won.

So all I did was express my joy. But since I’m loud, people looked at me strange. Since I don’t look nice and am fat, people just stare and leave. You were talking to yourself like Dongyeob’s son? Yes.

I was talking to myself. It’s just that he’s loud. Why don’t you demonstrate for us? You are watching a game and your team is winning. Wow!

Some people were surprised. They were surprised. She was too surprised.

She jumped up in her seat. But honking could disturb other people. As for honking, I was just trying to warn others. People don’t pay attention to moving cars sometimes and children might run out onto the street.

I just wanted to make others feel good, so I honked in the beat of the World Cup cheer. That’s pleasant for you, but… It depends on how loud you honk. If you honk softly, people could think you are witty.

But if you honk loudly, it could be unpleasant. How loud do you honk? Honk honk honk honk honk!

Like this. That’s what you think. Then why did you say that? “No one will mess with me when they see my face.” When someone small honks like that, it could become a fight.

But people usually just look at me and drive by. So it has become a habit of 40 years. Your husband says he had his reasons. What do you think? I don’t think he had any reasons.

He would open his car window while driving and throw trash on the street. He throws candy wrappers or used tissues. Please defend yourself. Why did you do that?

That… I’m very sorry. You must’ve done it many times.

You’re right. But I don’t do it when I drive at a high speed. I do it when I’m about to drive off. Why do you do that at all?

I think I would die of embarrassment if I were her. Hello. I’m a working mom from Kimhae. It’s chaos every day in our neighborhood.

That fatso is so noisy. Forget it. There’s no point in dealing with him. I don’t want to mess with him.

That fatso is 184cm tall and weighs 130 kg. He’s my husband. While he’s walking down the street… (Ha!) While he’s driving

Honk honk honk honk honk! Get out of the way! I’m coming!

Honk! He acts so shamelessly. He thinks he’s the only one in the world. Grandpa!

Grandpa! Get out of the way! Who parked here?

Come out now! I’ll kill you! He throws a tantrum when he’s unhappy. Honey, please be quiet. It’s fine.

No one will mess with me when they see my face. I am so embarrassed. What should I do about my husband? Please talk to him for me.

This has never happened to you, right, Sleepy? People like him yell at me. “Come out! Come out!” You look weak. That’s why.

Whenever they see me… Let’s bring her out now. Please come on out. (Kim Minjeong) (Hello, yo yo!) He acts shamelessly because he’s big? He’s 10 years older than I am.

He’s 10 years older? He’s tall and big. I married him because I thought he’d protect me. But he acts insensitive. Like how?

People all stare at him when he goes out. He looks like a gangster. Someone who can fight well?

When he sneezes, he’s so loud that it scares people. How does he sneeze? (Achoo!) He’s very loud. It’s surprising, but he doesn’t care at all. When he walks down the street, he shouts at and claps at people.

To strangers on the street? – Why? / – I guess he was in a good mood. – That must be scary. / – He scares people. When we go to a restaurant, he grabs the remote control as if it’s his. He switches the channel to watch baseball. Even when people are watching something else? Yes.

If his team loses, he cusses out loud. Everyone else can hear him? People whisper, “What’s wrong with him?

I hate that.” But he doesn’t care at all. I think he likes the attention. You think he does it to get attention? He likes to stand out.

He honks when he’s driving. Like the World Cup in 2002. For no reason? Yes.

He’s like a captain. When there’s an oncoming car in front of him, he just sits there and waits for the other car to move as if he has all the time in the world. I get worried that he might get into a fight. He’s quite inconsiderate of others.

He must get in many fights then. That’s actually never happened. People back down when they see him. You mean people avoid confronting him?

They just back down and leave. My husband knows that no one can confront him. – You wrote that in your story. / – Yes… – That’s so immature. / – He’s a big baby. I can see a big man sitting in front of us. – But he looks cute. / – He does.

Let’s meet him. Hello. Hello.

He looks like a cutie. Can you please stand up? He is tall and big.

I lost 15 kgs. I weigh 115 kgs now. – Please talk only when we ask you to. / – Okay. He’s cute when he smiles, but he does look intimidating when he doesn’t. Does he usually have that look?

Yes. I think he’s in a good mood today. He’s in a good mood because he’s here? I think so. Are you happy to be here? – Yes.

Very much. / – Why? Because he likes the attention. He couldn’t get any more attention than this! He’s on television. Is that why?

No, that’s not why. I’d like to take this chance to change myself. So you do understand that this is a concern. Yes, I do.

Then why do you act that way? Just change. You’ll find out once you hear me out, but I had my reasons. There were reasons why you acted that way? She’s saying that you are being inconsiderate.

What do you think about that? I’m not being inconsiderate. I am 40 years old, but I am just being immature like a high school student. That is being inconsiderate. (Patience) Did you just feel rage towards me?

No. Did you really start clapping out of the blue? She exaggerated. I was watching a game on my phone and my team won.

So all I did was express my joy. But since I’m loud, people looked at me strange. Since I don’t look nice and am fat, people just stare and leave. You were talking to yourself like Dongyeob’s son? Yes.

I was talking to myself. It’s just that he’s loud. Why don’t you demonstrate for us? You are watching a game and your team is winning. Wow!

Some people were surprised. They were surprised. She was too surprised.

She jumped up in her seat. But honking could disturb other people. As for honking, I was just trying to warn others. People don’t pay attention to moving cars sometimes and children might run out onto the street.

I just wanted to make others feel good, so I honked in the beat of the World Cup cheer. That’s pleasant for you, but… It depends on how loud you honk. If you honk softly, people could think you are witty.

But if you honk loudly, it could be unpleasant. How loud do you honk? Honk honk honk honk honk!

Like this. That’s what you think. Then why did you say that? “No one will mess with me when they see my face.” When someone small honks like that, it could become a fight.

But people usually just look at me and drive by. So it has become a habit of 40 years. Your husband says he had his reasons. What do you think? I don’t think he had any reasons.

He would open his car window while driving and throw trash on the street. He throws candy wrappers or used tissues. Please defend yourself. Why did you do that?

That… I’m very sorry. You must’ve done it many times.

You’re right. But I don’t do it when I drive at a high speed. I do it when I’m about to drive off. Why do you do that at all?

I know. Is it a signal that you’re driving off? Sometimes, the cars are double-parked. A driver calls to ask us to move our car, but he tells me to lie and say that he’s not home or doesn’t answer calls.

He’s just too lazy to move. He must’ve gotten frustrated. Why did you do that?

I was seeking revenge. Why? He was being selfish first. Other people would’ve gone down to move the car. So it was just that one time?

That one time only? There were other cases. – Why did you do that then? / – Was that also revenge? That time I forgot to leave my number there.

I was at a baseball game. So there were only those two times? No.

Then what about the other times? I forgot to leave my number then, too. Why don’t you leave your number? People make mistakes.

You made mistakes quite often. That… I apologize for that, too. He’s quite fast in apologizing.

I can’t say anything because he apologized. Let me ask you this. It never happened besides those 3 times?

There were more times. Please stop. Stop asking him. He did it a lot.

What are you most embarrassed about? He’s 40 years old, but he still urinates on the street. Urinating on the street. You’ve broken the law many times.

You urinate on the street? You’re not talking about urgent situations where there are no restrooms around or no rest stops ahead? No. I think he’s too lazy to go to the restroom. Why do you do that?

I’m actually a victim on this one. A victim? Why? Most places have coed restrooms. When I walk in and run into women, they look at me like I’m a pervert.

I was just desperate to pee. I get upset and angry. So I urinate on the street.

You’re talking nonsense here. That is ridiculous. He was being considerate of women in coed restrooms. I’ve had a big head since I was a child, so I got hurt by spiteful comments.

Maybe I want to be repaid for that. I don’t look mean because I want to. I’m not loud because I want to be.

I guess I’m fat because I ate a lot. But people misunderstand me as a bad guy. I’m sure she came in because she was in a hurry, but she just left.

So I felt bad. I look like the weird one if you ask me why I don’t go. So I just don’t go to public restrooms, so I urinate on the street out of habit. You know that you get a fine if you’re caught, right? – I didn’t know that. / – You didn’t? I don’t enjoy exposing myself.

I go to dark places to pee, like behind the building. Of course. It’d be weird to do it in an open area.

But this is Seoul. Rural areas have different standards. So it’s okay to pee behind buildings in rural areas? What about the smell?

I pee into the sewer. So you are careful about where you pee. But you could still be fined.

But I haven’t been caught so far. (When will he grow up?) In your wife’s story, you yelled at older people.

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