May 8, 2020

What to do on a date? Second, third and following dates – what is the right behaviour on them?

Hello, dear subscribers and dear man, clients! I am Elena Vyganyuk. and today we talk about second and following dates and how to understand that your first date was very good and that you can continue and how you should act after a good first date. Why did I choose this topic?

Hello, dear subscribers and dear man, clients! I am Elena Vyganyuk. and today we talk about second and following dates and how to understand that your first date was very good and that you can continue and how you should act after a good first date. Why did I choose this topic?

Just because again many of our clients asked questions about this and in this video I want to share with you our experience and what we noticed in our practice. So, let’s start from the first date and discussing it and how to understand that it was well. I think that these the signs are quite obvious for many people but still I can I should tell you about them. So, the first sign is that your meeting was for a while and meeting was more than one hour and no one of them, no one of you, not neither you, no woman was in a hurry for some other business or for the other meetings.

So at this date you really you usually feel at ease, you feel relaxed and your lady asks many questions about you, about your family, about your childhood, you discuss many topics and you don’t feel that you want to stop. Even if you have translator next to you. if even your lady doesn’t speak good English, still you have this type of connection and you want to continue talking, you have interest to her and she has much interest to you and you get plenty of questions of her.https://www.silversingles.com/ And usually during such meetings ladies don’t eat so much as in other cases. and the science that show you she’s not interested – she’s using her phone quite often, she looks at her watched and she leaves you during that time that is less than one hour and usually such girls they don't ask you so many questions – they just eat, just drink and listening to you.

And, as I told, it’s quite obvious science and probably you can easily understand that something goes wrong yourself and now we continue talking about the case when you had a good first date and you want to continue. There were several cases in my practice when after the good first date woman was waiting for message or phone call from a man who she liked. And at the same time this man was waiting this message from her. And they couldn’t meet until we started to talk to them and we solved the situation. So in our culture it’s good when man is initiative and initiator.

So if you really liked woman you should contact her, don’t hesitate to write her and ask about the next meeting, especially if you like, if you match her first time and you liked her – it’s better to write here at this evening even that you like her a lot and you hope for continuation. Because after the first date and if lady liked you, if lady liked men she expects you to write something warm to her and she would look at her phone quite often. Then what is the other advice to do – it’s to plan your second meeting, third meeting in during the first two or three days. So I mean in the nearest time because this way again this lady will understand you are really interested in her and especially she’s ready for continuation too – she will be just happy to get your invitation. Sometimes if your first date was just perfect and lady also feels it and understands for sure, she can even text you message first in first and suggest you going out.

But in our culture it happens not so often, many ladies they just expect the man to be the first, so if you want continuation just reversed and be active and don't be shy. And as for the second date, third date, fourth date when you come to Ukraine, to Odessa, for example, it’s better to make these dates emotional. For example, on the second date you can go to another cafe and have a talk. On the third date you can go to any excursions interesting excursions because even not all the local ladies visited them before or you can ask us and we can arrange a very romantic date. Because it’s well known that to have a better connection people need to experience emotions together. that’s why sometimes people in love they go to attractions together to have strong emotions or they go to the cinema and even if they watch very sad film, they got closer because at the same time, at the same place they had common emotions and make it makes people closer.

So I hope this video was useful for you. Please like it, if you really liked it, leave your write your comments, ask your questions, if you have them and I will see you soon in our new videos. bye bye.

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